ZEN…what’s it good for?
I wish life were as simple as being a Buddhist Monk. But as a woman alive today it is not. The demands are great:
-shop for and cook healthy, organic, and local meals for one’s family.
-be in top physical shape
-look gorgeous
-have a stylish wardrobe
-have a beautifully decorated home
-have a clean home and a tidy yard
-have a gorgeous landscaped yard
-have children who are educated in all areas (requires much extra curricular lessons and travel)
-dress children in stylish wardrobes
-groom children to perfection.
-play all sorts of expensive sports
-have a brilliant career that pays good money
-be a great talent in one or two areas
-have a relationship with your lover (this requires time)
-be well educated
-raise a few pets
-be an eco-warrior in spare time
-try to have a friend or two
-oh, and don’t forget to be well read too
-find time to meditate to “balance” this crazy lifestyle
-find time to get together with like souls(spiritual community) to practice one’s spiritual quest
-visit dentists and doctors, orthodontists regularly to keep everyone in top shape
-visit children’s schools regularly to make sure everyones needs are being met…and this is the tip of the iceberg.
This is why the ZEN of the ZEN are unmarried, childless males who do not have a career other than meditating. I have much admiration for those who embark on a spiritual/philosophical quest to find enlightenment. But if enlightenment comes from being childless, loverless and no career ambitions other than spirituality–then I guess I am hooped.
I find it very difficult to find ZEN at this time in my life journey. However, I always like a good challenge. So this is why I am a Buddhist: the philosophy is pure science, and the quest simple: happiness. And even better, to always create good karma. That means that we are free to think the most vile of thoughts, the trick is to never act on them. But instead, act in a manner that is always kind and compassionate. Anyone can do it!
John's pic of the day
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Melissa Mix Hart
mmm…blizzards….
Sandra
The beautiful Arthur sisters!